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In the following videos, Bianca explains exactly what Integrated Somatic therapy encompasses, how the nervous system functions, how emotional pain can manifest itself into chronic physical pain and dis-ease, how to recognize if you need outside guidance for self regulating and trauma healing techniques, and how her F.L.Y - First . Love . Yourself Mind Body Connection Courses, Therapy Sessions, Healing Circles & Events/Retreats can truly be life changing for those seeking an alternative way to empower themselves to self heal.

If you feel disconnected from your body,

it’s not “just in your head.”

It’s your nervous system.

Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, you keep ending up in the same emotional cycles?
You start to feel better—only to crash again. You try new strategies, read the self-help books, go to therapy, and take all the “right” steps…

yet you still feel stuck.

The exhaustion, the overwhelm, the numbness—they always return.

You may have wondered, “What’s wrong with me?”

The truth is, nothing is wrong with you. You’re not broken. You’re not weak. You’re not lacking motivation.
You’re just operating from a dysregulated nervous system that’s been living in survival mode for far too long.

💡 Why This Happens

When you experience ongoing stress, burnout, or unresolved trauma—especially over many years

—your nervous system adapts to keep you safe. It learns to stay on high alert, stuck in a state of fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.

And in that state:

  • Your body reacts before you can make sense of what's happening

  • You feel constantly tired, even when you rest

  • You can’t fully enjoy the “good” in your life

  • You become overwhelmed by minor triggers or numb to everything

  • You can’t explain why you feel so off—but you do

This isn’t a failure of willpower or mindset. It’s biology. And what you need isn’t more mental effort.
What you need is nervous system regulation.

What Is Somatic Therapy?

Somatic therapy is a body-based healing modality that helps you reconnect with the physical sensations, emotions, and energy stored in your body.

Unlike traditional talk therapy, which focuses on the mind and thoughts, somatic therapy works with the felt sense

—how emotions and memories live in your tissues, muscles, and nervous system.

When the body is allowed to safely process these stored experiences, deep healing begins to happen

—not by forcing change, but by gently restoring balance.

Through guided movement, breathwork, mindful awareness, and gentle body-based practices,

somatic therapy helps your nervous system relearn how to feel safe,

and when the body feels safe, the mind follows.

The result?

  • Brain fog begins to lift

  • Triggers lose their charge

  • Emotions become easier to process

  • Calm becomes your baseline—not a goal you’re chasing

  • You begin to feel at home in your body again

Introducing: F.L.Y – First Love Yourself

F.L.Y is an online somatic healing course designed to help you regulate your nervous system,

release stored stress, and reconnect with your body in a deeply nourishing way.

It’s not about digging into the past or endlessly analyzing your thoughts.
It’s not about forcing positivity or “just trying harder.”

Instead, F.L.Y gives you practical, somatic tools to:

  • Reset your stress response

  • Rebuild trust with your body

  • Reclaim your energy, focus, and inner calm

  • Create lasting change from the inside out

If you’ve tried everything and still feel like you’re spinning in circles…
Maybe what you need isn’t more talk therapy.
Maybe what you need is a safe return to your body.

F.L.Y could be the answer your nervous system has been waiting for.

Inspirational poster with 'F.L.Y' acronym 'First Love Yourself', featuring a flying bird and palm fronds against a gray sky.
  • VIDEO 1: What is Integrated Somatic Therapy & what is the difference between Talk Therapy and Somatic Therapy?

  • VIDEO 2: Trauma & The Nervous System

  • VIDEO 3: 5 Signs of Untreated Trauma & how to recognize if you can benefit from Integrative Somatic Mind Body Therapy

  • VIDEO 4: Impacts of Trauma & the Importance of Nervous System Regulation

  • VIDEO 5: Emotional, Nutritional, Physical & Spiritual Healing

  • VIDEO 6: Pain is your GPS

  • VIDEO 7: What is F.L.Y and how can you benefit from this program

  • VIDEO 8: Women’s Somatic Healing Circles, F.L.Y Wellness Retreats, live online workshops

What is Integrated Somatic Therapy?

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What is the difference between Talk Therapy & Somatic Therapy?

Trauma & The Nervous System

5 Signs of Untreated Trauma & how to recognize if you can benefit from Integrative Somatic Mind Body Therapy

Impacts of trauma & the importance of Nervous System Regulation

Emotional, Nutritional, Physical & Spiritual Healing

pain is your gps

What is F.L.Y and how can you benefit from this program

Women’s Somatic Healing Circles, live online workshops, f.l.y wellness retreats